Common Cents # 30 The Sermon on the Mount

 

There is a passage in the Bible usually called “The Sermon on the Mount”. It is found in chapters 5-7 of Matthew. In a few hundred words, Jesus tells the reader what it means to be his disciple, a student and follower of Christ. In clear concise language he tells us how we should live a life that honors Him and that recognizes the power that we receive as we trust in Him. He speaks of the benefits of generosity and the hazards of greed. He talks about murder and adultery in physical and emotional terms as well as forgiveness, not seeking revenge and not being anxious or worrying. He speaks clearly about loving our enemies.

An interesting point is made in Matthew 5:25. “Settle matters quickly with your adversary who is taking you to court.” In other words, resolve disputes with others without having to rely on the government’s agencies to decide remedies for us.  When I first began being in business 47 years ago, I had a few predetermined goals. One was to be totally honest and to never do anything the least bit shady or illegal. Another was to resolve all issues without ever having to sue anyone and to avoid being sued. So far, so good. 

Twenty-first century America is the most litigious society ever. We see it in advertising on TV and billboards for law firms. This is a situation unique to the United States. Some people say the problem is too many lawyers. Some states such as California even adjust the bar exam to limit the numbers of attorneys who pass the bar and are granted licenses in a particular year. But the number of lawyers is not the basic problem. The underlying problem is the general obstinance and arrogance of too many people who demand that a situation only be resolved their way with no compromise considered. People want their own way and will sue somebody if they don’t get what they think they deserve.

This explains Jesus including the subject in his Sermon on the Mount. It is in the context of forgiveness, humility, and not seeking revenge for perceived wrongs. We want our own way and are unwilling to listen to others or negotiate a settlement that is acceptable to all. This is the underlying issue in gang fights, wars, and lawsuits. Actual forgiveness that we extend to others may involve a temporary financial loss on our balance sheet but it also may provide a freedom from anger that will be for the long term. 

In business or in our personal lives, we should strive to lead lives of integrity. If a grievance arises with a family member, friend or customer, we must make every effort to make amends or settle the issue. Going to court is never the best choice.